The father/son talk

Well, all the questions I asked were so time consuming that I was home before he was able to give me the answer....it was football.
He is trying out for the local team and has decided that he is in a bit over his head, but didn't want to disappoint me or more importantly his dad.
Well our policy (posted right on the fridge...not really...) is.... all we ask is that you try. So I assured him that neither of us would be disappointed, but he still wanted me to break the news to dad.
I went to the computer to send dad an instant message (the best way to reach him at work) and recanted the sad story. He picked up the phone right away and called . I watched J's face as his dad tried to put his mind at ease. My mom heart strings were singing but I somehow knew that those 3 magic words would be overlooked so I dashed back to the computer and reminded dad to say I love you. He did and J hung up.
About 15 minutes later J was helping me unload the diswasher, (because I want my son to know how to help his future wife in these menial tasks, or at the very least not need me to come over to his batchelor pad to do it for him) and I asked him what his dad had said when he called.
J: "He said I love you"
Me:"That's great! Did he say anything else?"
J: "Ya, he said there was something he forgot to tell me and then he said I love you"
Ok, if tears are not welling up in your eyes right now, I don't want to know you, because that, dear readers, was the most touching moment you can have with a 10 year old boy! Out of everything his dad said, that was the one thing that stuck.
Go tell you kid(s) you love them (unless of course they are 14, horizontal, and on their 23rd hour of television today........then admittedly it will be harder)
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